Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes... ...
Five Practices To Stay Away From While Dating.
1. Competitive activity. A Date is not the time to judge yourself, your Ex-, your achievements, with your prospect's.
2. Skill. Wanting to prove how good you are at being a good partner is unnecessary consideration and that will manifest.
3. Chance. Remember you chose to go on this date. In the end, there's no chance involved.
4. Endurance. A date is not a contest to find out who can outlast the other at being funny or amusing.
5. Rules. Rigid rules become a choking point to possibility.
Five Things To Put Into Practice When Dating.
1. Play. Though these may seem basic, I'll be willing to wager a lot of you don't approach dating as a playful exercise. Can you recall a time when you were the carefree child making castles in the mud? How perfect was that? Not a care in the world, nothing to prove. Just muddy fun! Find ways to go into your date with fun. Find fun even if the person on the other side of the table is a serious type. Make the game of the night to look for fun. You don't need to see him or her again if they can't be easy-going and have fun. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationship Attraction, and is not hard to grasp.
2. Laugh. A cousin of Play, laughing is the most infectious way to release joy. Prior to going on any date, most importantly, the first date, tell yourself that you will consciously search for a reason to feel good and laugh. Smile a lot. At the waitress or waiter, at the hostess. Just put on a grin for no reason.
3. Listen. This is such an important way to connect with your date. Deep listening is when you turn off the voices in your mind and really listen to what the person across the table is saying. Granted, your critical voice may be wanting to chime in for many reasons. You do not like the way he eats his soup. She's always playing with her hair. Stuff like that are simply distracting from the main purpose. Just notice yourself being distracted and pull yourself back into the present. Again, you don't have to see them again if you don't desire to. Although, this is an important practice, and it is an intimacy builder. You'll want to use this practice in your long-term relationship, so why not get your practice in now. By the way, you do not need to use listening just in the dating realm. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Love today and increase your level of positive energy!
4. Eye Contact. Do not simply make eye contact and bob your head. Practice deep listening whilst making eye contact. This is an excellent display of your own generosity. And I can assure you, that generosity will come back to you. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Using an independent listener to talk to can help you move off old patterns much more quickly.
5. Communicate. When it's your time to speak, strive for clarity and being heard. Since you have given your time to your date, expect the same. You haven't interrupted him or her during when he or she has been talking. If an interruption happens, request the same manners. You can be polite and kind about it without turning it into a problem. Simply nicely ask for what you desire. Feeling confident in this takes much pressure off your date. You leave them firmly knowing what you want.
It does not matter if you're 25 or 75 in the dating scene - simply enjoy life - if viewed as a fun game, one in which there are no losers, your date will go much more smoothly for both parties.
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